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The endless ranting of a 20-something who might actually know something.

Staying Fresh and Clean: Barbershops in Manhattan’s Lower East Side

“So, I’m getting married.”

“Why are you doing that?”

Both of the men saw the doe-eyed 21-year-old girl sitting behind them in the mirror and fell into whispers that couldn’t be overheard through the Top 40 Hits blaring from the boom box perched next to the entrance, a courtroom drama playing on one of two televisions and the buzz of the clippers—ever present in a neighborhood barbershop.

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Barbershops are viewed as a place where men can be men. They can say whatever is on their mind and escape from the stress of work and family. As Larry Johnston of Floridatoday.com[i] explained it, “Barbershops are among the last bastions of manliness.” Johnston notes that men don’t bring up personal issues in the barbershop but Hubert “Q” Phillip, co-owner of Perfection Barbershop on Avenue C, gave a different impression, “So I would definitely say that the barber shop is a place that you can come be a man. Whatever’s going on in your life you can talk about it and not worry about somebody taking the conversation outside. It all stays in the barbershop. I feel like we have that kind of relationship, that kind of trust, we can confide and talk about stuff and feel like it’s not even a problem. It’s gonna stay in the barber shop,”

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“We’re here to cut hair and that’s all we do,” said Phillip. The media occasionally covers the industry that remains the cornerstone to tightly knit communities. Like every aspect of the economy, barbershops have been affected by the global financial crisis.

According to Phillip, there isn’t much the media could do to have their voice heard. “I’m not sure if the media would make a difference in that.” However, he does have complaints of the stereotypes of barbershops perpetuated by the media. “Some people will affiliate the barbershop with any kind of illegal activity you could think about.”

Phillip has a point but it does not seem to be about the media as much as it is about the police enforcing certain laws and paying special attention to barbershops when doing so.

However, the media does choose to cover those stories that highlight the police’s concerns. In a recent online article from the Southtown Star, an affiliate of the Chicago Sun-Times[ii], it was reported that the mayor and city council of Country Club Hills passed an ordinance that would “prohibit groups of three or more from standing within 20 feet of an entrance to a commercial building.” According to the mayor Dwight Welch, this Professor-Umbridge-type measure will “’give a clear signal that that kind of conduct, those kinds of values, will not be tolerated in our community. We do not want drug dealing in our community.’”

The story also reported the opposition to Welch’s ordinance, as well as suggesting alternative activities for these young men accused of causing trouble in the community. “[They] need some type of job training, some type of place to go. We need the gyms open for them to play basketball,’” Ald. Leon Williams explained.

Phillip weighed in, “You standing across the street watching what’s going on on [the other] side, I mean, there’s a possibility you might see little funny moves but, then again, you gotta see where that person is coming from. Is he coming from [the] left? Is he necessarily coming out of the barber shop?”

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Recently, an undercover police officer was planted in a barbershop in the Bronx to observe possible drug deals occurring in the establishment. He found no such illegal activity was taking place. Other undercover cops would come into the shop for a trim from him. “The hope was that they would buy marijuana, or at least witness transactions,” William K. Rashbaum for the New York Times reported[iii].

The only discovery the police made seemed to be that they chose an individual who was not very good at cutting hair in the first place. The story focused more on the cop’s lack of talent rather than the unwarranted suspicion.

This same story was posted on the websites of The New York Times, Gothamist[iv], NBC 40[v], New York Magazine[vi] and Bend Bulletin[vii]. Not one mentioned the assumptions made by the police regarding barbershops being hubs for drug activity. They all focused on the kitschy aspect of the police officer being a lousy barber.

Phillip called the media’s spin on the story “silly.” He proceeded to set the record straight, “Everybody that’s in here, we’re pretty serious about what we do. We don’t have that kind of crowd that’s hanging around.” Later he continued, “We’re all caught up in what we’re doing. I’m cutting hair, everybody’s cutting we’re not necessarily looking over our shoulders to see who’s doing what. Once again, for you to stereotype the whole barber shop, I don’t think that’s fair at all.”

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According to Phillip, there are issues concerning this age-old business that are not discussed in the public forum. “For example I’ve been a barber for damn near 12 years and I haven’t seen a change in the prices since I started cutting hair. I mean, how is that even possible? I mean, don’t get me wrong, if you’re in a store and a lease agreement, your rent is actually going to go up 10% every year, on the high end—on the low end, 5%. That goes up every year so, if the prices stay the same then it’s going to hard for me to actually rise the rent or the percentage on each barber’s chair.”

Phillip does not think that there would be any kind of a backlash from customers, however, if prices were raised. He explained that with the base cost of haircuts at $12 most customers give him $20. He said that he would prefer the base to be $16 or $17 and receive $20, making his tip only $3 or $4. “I think we would get much further, ‘cause not everybody is going to give you a $20 tip.” Despite the fact that customers may not be upset by a possible hike in prices, it is an issue that faces this industry that’s deeply entrenched in stability and consistency.

The media should be putting a positive spin on the community hub that is the barbershop. Phillip concluded, “It would really be nice if we could get that positive energy back in the barbershop. And when you think of barbershops, you think about the haircut, and them going to a nice little comfort zone—away from the family, away from work, away from all the stress. When you come to you come to the barbershop, sit back, relax, get a nice haircut, have a nice conversation, and that’s about it.”

Sources


[i]http://www.floridatoday.com/article/20111109/COLUMNISTS0110/311090004/Larry-Johnston-Barbershops-among-last-bastions-manliness

[ii] http://southtownstar.suntimes.com/news/9136575-418/anti-loitering-law-upsets-some-country-club-hills-aldermen.html

[iii] http://www.nytimes.com/2011/11/11/nyregion/successful-ticket-fixing-inquiry-despite-a-barber.html

[iv] http://gothamist.com/2011/11/11/nypd_ticket-fixing_investigators_ta.php

[v] http://www.nbc40.net/news/19814/

[vi] http://nymag.com/daily/intel/2011/11/undercover-barber-sucked-at-cutting-hair.html

[vii] http://www.bendbulletin.com/article/20111111/NEWS0107/111110420/

 I do not want this man representing me to the world. How could I want this man standing for America and the principles it upholds? Don’t I want someone who is articulate and understands the ways of the world? Don’t I want someone who doesn’t have to try to convince his potential supporters that he didn’t sexually harass multiple women?
 These are not questions America should be asking itself when they go to the polling booths this time next year. We shouldn’t have to think about that. We should be focused on who’s been trying to help us out of this disaster of an economy and perpetuate the liberty we’ve enjoyed for the last 250 years.
 Clearly, Herman Cain is not who can represent the American people.
 “As I sat in my hotel room with a couple of my staff members, as they got to the microphone, my first response in my mind and reaction was ‘I don’t even know who this woman is.’” Cain stated today at the beginning of his press conference.
 As a twenty-one-year-old woman in Manhattan, I am harassed everyday. I can’t step out of my apartment without someone saying something to me. I could be in sweats and still be sexually harassed. The men may not remember me or their actions as the days go by, but I sure do. As time goes on, I have become desensitized to it. However, it never ceases to amaze me how uncomfortable someone is able to make me feel at 8 am on a random Tuesday. I remember their face most of the time. They certainly don’t remember mine. Who’s to say that Cain is any different from these men?
 Multiple accusers have come forward saying Cain has sexually harassed them. Four, actually. How can this many women come forward and this not be true? There have been whisperings—and by that I mean Wolf Blitzer mentioned it after the press conference—that the accusers may have a joint press conference of their own to go into detail of their experiences.
 Cain said that the one accusation that he remembered was dealt with by the National Restaurant Association—mind you he was the president at the time—and was “personally resolved” not “legally settled in court.”
 If there was a real issue to resolve regarding the National Restaurant Association’s president, the Association would no doubt to everything in their power to resolve it out of court.
 “And now that I’m running for the highest office in the land, accusation after accusation. some anonymous, some not-so-anonymous are now coming to light. This is not a surprise. It was expected.” Cain said.
 There are dozens of other presidential candidates that have run without being accused of sexual harassment. You must have been expecting these accusations for a reason. Most of the sexual harassment accusations that have come forth during campaigns are true. Need everyone be reminded of John Edwards?
 So, no worries Mr. Cain. You’re just another philandering politician and business man. Unfortunately, we need someone exceptional to be able to run this country.
Photo courtesy of The Telegraph

I do not want this man representing me to the world. How could I want this man standing for America and the principles it upholds? Don’t I want someone who is articulate and understands the ways of the world? Don’t I want someone who doesn’t have to try to convince his potential supporters that he didn’t sexually harass multiple women?

These are not questions America should be asking itself when they go to the polling booths this time next year. We shouldn’t have to think about that. We should be focused on who’s been trying to help us out of this disaster of an economy and perpetuate the liberty we’ve enjoyed for the last 250 years.

Clearly, Herman Cain is not who can represent the American people.

“As I sat in my hotel room with a couple of my staff members, as they got to the microphone, my first response in my mind and reaction was ‘I don’t even know who this woman is.’” Cain stated today at the beginning of his press conference.

As a twenty-one-year-old woman in Manhattan, I am harassed everyday. I can’t step out of my apartment without someone saying something to me. I could be in sweats and still be sexually harassed. The men may not remember me or their actions as the days go by, but I sure do. As time goes on, I have become desensitized to it. However, it never ceases to amaze me how uncomfortable someone is able to make me feel at 8 am on a random Tuesday. I remember their face most of the time. They certainly don’t remember mine. Who’s to say that Cain is any different from these men?

Multiple accusers have come forward saying Cain has sexually harassed them. Four, actually. How can this many women come forward and this not be true? There have been whisperings—and by that I mean Wolf Blitzer mentioned it after the press conference—that the accusers may have a joint press conference of their own to go into detail of their experiences.

Cain said that the one accusation that he remembered was dealt with by the National Restaurant Association—mind you he was the president at the time—and was “personally resolved” not “legally settled in court.”

If there was a real issue to resolve regarding the National Restaurant Association’s president, the Association would no doubt to everything in their power to resolve it out of court.

“And now that I’m running for the highest office in the land, accusation after accusation. some anonymous, some not-so-anonymous are now coming to light. This is not a surprise. It was expected.” Cain said.

There are dozens of other presidential candidates that have run without being accused of sexual harassment. You must have been expecting these accusations for a reason. Most of the sexual harassment accusations that have come forth during campaigns are true. Need everyone be reminded of John Edwards?

So, no worries Mr. Cain. You’re just another philandering politician and business man. Unfortunately, we need someone exceptional to be able to run this country.

Photo courtesy of The Telegraph

Today, as many as 400 people were arrested on the Brooklyn Bridge after being lured there as justification for the arrests by the NYPD as reported by the New York Times.
These people were apart of the movement Occupy Wall Street and were doing one of the most American things someone can do—protest.
This is evidence for the system breaking down. It was reported on Twitter that several policemen were hestitent to follow through with the arrests. They had every reason to feel this way. They were not apart of the elite. Therefore, Occupy Wall Street is fighting for them and their families.
They are not the congressman who knows the CEO from grade school or the banker who is family friends with the senator. They are breadwinners for their family. Their wives are hairdressers, teachers, and sales clerks. They work hard to ensure comfort for their families, just like the rest of this country.
The elite tax these people who work two or three jobs to make ends meet because they don’t know that life. They call them lazy or free-loaders. A single mother holding down three jobs at Wal-Mart, Outback, and CVS so she can put food on the table for her children is not a free-loader.
There are many who continue to vote for the representatives who vote for tax cuts that benefit themselves and not their constituents. Sure, by looking at the numbers it seems as if it works out but taking 25% of a single mother’s income of $34,500 a year is a much bigger dent than 35% of $2,000,000 a year. The number’s from this are on page 38 http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p15.pdf
Instead of the major news outlets revealing the truth, they continue to perpetuate the, as Walter Lippmann referred to them, “pseudo-environments” created by stereotypes.
Today, there has been very little coverage of the injustices on the Brooklyn Bridge. Unless the media risks upsetting their precious elite no one will ever understand that we have become the America we didn’t want to turn into.
Many say that Occupy Wall Street doesn’t have a clear goal. This is not true. Frustration is their woe. True equal opportunity and less disparity between classes is their goal. What we all want for America. However, we have lost sight of what this country is by focusing on or being distracted by the petty arguments across the aisle between our representatives.
Occupy Wall Street is bringing us back to reality and revealing the true nature of what our nation has become. This is just the beginning.
Photo credit: Alan Taylor for The Atlantic

Today, as many as 400 people were arrested on the Brooklyn Bridge after being lured there as justification for the arrests by the NYPD as reported by the New York Times.

These people were apart of the movement Occupy Wall Street and were doing one of the most American things someone can do—protest.

This is evidence for the system breaking down. It was reported on Twitter that several policemen were hestitent to follow through with the arrests. They had every reason to feel this way. They were not apart of the elite. Therefore, Occupy Wall Street is fighting for them and their families.

They are not the congressman who knows the CEO from grade school or the banker who is family friends with the senator. They are breadwinners for their family. Their wives are hairdressers, teachers, and sales clerks. They work hard to ensure comfort for their families, just like the rest of this country.

The elite tax these people who work two or three jobs to make ends meet because they don’t know that life. They call them lazy or free-loaders. A single mother holding down three jobs at Wal-Mart, Outback, and CVS so she can put food on the table for her children is not a free-loader.

There are many who continue to vote for the representatives who vote for tax cuts that benefit themselves and not their constituents. Sure, by looking at the numbers it seems as if it works out but taking 25% of a single mother’s income of $34,500 a year is a much bigger dent than 35% of $2,000,000 a year. The number’s from this are on page 38 http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/p15.pdf

Instead of the major news outlets revealing the truth, they continue to perpetuate the, as Walter Lippmann referred to them, “pseudo-environments” created by stereotypes.

Today, there has been very little coverage of the injustices on the Brooklyn Bridge. Unless the media risks upsetting their precious elite no one will ever understand that we have become the America we didn’t want to turn into.

Many say that Occupy Wall Street doesn’t have a clear goal. This is not true. Frustration is their woe. True equal opportunity and less disparity between classes is their goal. What we all want for America. However, we have lost sight of what this country is by focusing on or being distracted by the petty arguments across the aisle between our representatives.

Occupy Wall Street is bringing us back to reality and revealing the true nature of what our nation has become. This is just the beginning.

Photo credit: Alan Taylor for The Atlantic

America failed tonight.

This evening I sat in my American Constitution class in a brightly colored room on the first floor of the politics department building at NYU. I had just come from a Comparative Politics recitation where we had to define democracy and so I felt exceptionally patriotic. My Indian professor from Britain lecturing us on American law (if that’s not globalization then I don’t know what is) focused on the Dred Scott case this evening. Ironically, America failed this evening just as it had one hundred and fifty years ago when this case was brought to the supreme court.

In the middle of our discussion a young man raised his hand and announced what I thought was that the Supreme Court had agreed to step in and delay the execution of Mr. Davis. I’m sure other’s heard the same because there were a few “Woots!” that sprinkled the room and it would be shocking to hear support of such an appalling thing that happened this evening at such a liberal institution as NYU. For a few hours, until I was able to come home and see the article from the New York Times myself, I thought that our democratic system, the one that I had been using as a model for my definition just this evening, had succeeded. I thought that the protests taking place across the globe that are the pinnacle of democratic expression (aside from voting) made an impression on the people who have the final say in the matter. That the choir of voices that stood up for what they believe in had been heard. Unfortunately, I couldn’t have been more wrong.

A new home

Living in a big girl apartment deep in Alphabet City, on a corner seedy enough for my friends to constantly ask if I need to be walked home—even at 3 in the afternoon, I have begun to grow up. I have allowed my roots to begin to take hold in the 9.5’ x 10.5’ cube with a view of Avenue C that is all my own. The barber shop—one of three on my block that I know of—provides me with perpetual entertainment from baby mama drama to political opinions of the patrons. The gentlemen that settle into the corner every morning with their canes, coffee, and Knicks hats wish me a good morning as I head off to 9:30 French classes and $3 chai tea lattes. The boost in self esteem the provide me with is unparalleled and not creepy the way many may imagine it. When was the last time someone told you they want to spend their day with you just because of the way you smile? That’s what I thought.

I find this so sad that this is where we’re headed. I understand the advantage of Kindles and Nooks but nothing compares to the real thing.
Books you can toss around. Throw them in your purse and not worry about them breaking. Get them wet without worrying about them frying. Take notes in the margins. Open them wider as the plot thickens. Smell the pages. Flip through them. FEEL how far you’ve gotten rather than look at the percentage you’ve read.
I think it’s great that these inventions have seemed to spark a new interest in reading. I suppose that’s the real advantage. Nothing compares to the smell of my books and looking at them on my bookshelf. Seeing the worlds of someone else’s imagination I explored with my own rather than knowing they exist in a hard drive. Books and their pages will never die. At least not for me. 

I find this so sad that this is where we’re headed. I understand the advantage of Kindles and Nooks but nothing compares to the real thing.

Books you can toss around. Throw them in your purse and not worry about them breaking. Get them wet without worrying about them frying. Take notes in the margins. Open them wider as the plot thickens. Smell the pages. Flip through them. FEEL how far you’ve gotten rather than look at the percentage you’ve read.

I think it’s great that these inventions have seemed to spark a new interest in reading. I suppose that’s the real advantage. Nothing compares to the smell of my books and looking at them on my bookshelf. Seeing the worlds of someone else’s imagination I explored with my own rather than knowing they exist in a hard drive. Books and their pages will never die. At least not for me. 

If my roommate for next year didn’t already have a cat I’d be on the hunt for one of my own right now. I’m going through serious withdrawl of being a cat owner and the MacDonald’s cat is far from satisfactory. She doesn’t come and sit next to you or sit on your lap. She’ll maybe let you pet her, if you’re lucky. Most cats love me. My relationship with that menace, though improving, has been less than warm than most of my encounter’s with felines.
In the fall, I’ll have a new buddy to cuddle up with. Yay!

If my roommate for next year didn’t already have a cat I’d be on the hunt for one of my own right now. I’m going through serious withdrawl of being a cat owner and the MacDonald’s cat is far from satisfactory. She doesn’t come and sit next to you or sit on your lap. She’ll maybe let you pet her, if you’re lucky. Most cats love me. My relationship with that menace, though improving, has been less than warm than most of my encounter’s with felines.

In the fall, I’ll have a new buddy to cuddle up with. Yay!

(via atomos)

How to be a 20-Something

This is the inspiration for this blog, my philosophy, my life in general.

Just in case you were wondering

I just finished The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao last night. I felt like I was getting a glimpse, however small, into the Dominican culture. I wish I could say it made a big impression on me though. It didn’t. While I was reading it I found it entertaining and intriguing. However, I don’t find myself thinking about it as much I would like to after I finish an amazing book.
So, basically, I enjoyed it. But it didn’t make the impression on me I wanted it to. I felt like there was a point in the story where there could be no happy ending. And while this is often true in real life, I found it frustrating in this novel. Who knows? Maybe I just like trite endings. But I get frustrated with those, too.
Perhaps it was the fact that I could, in no way, relate to Oscar. A white girl from Connecticut with hippy tendencies can’t relate to a nerdy Dominican from the ghetto in New Jersey. I can relate to life going badly no matter what. But that’s life, not a curse. Right? Well, maybe in that families case.
Conclusion:
Definitely worth a read.
Now for something light with Eat, Pray, Love.

I just finished The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao last night. I felt like I was getting a glimpse, however small, into the Dominican culture. I wish I could say it made a big impression on me though. It didn’t. While I was reading it I found it entertaining and intriguing. However, I don’t find myself thinking about it as much I would like to after I finish an amazing book.

So, basically, I enjoyed it. But it didn’t make the impression on me I wanted it to. I felt like there was a point in the story where there could be no happy ending. And while this is often true in real life, I found it frustrating in this novel. Who knows? Maybe I just like trite endings. But I get frustrated with those, too.

Perhaps it was the fact that I could, in no way, relate to Oscar. A white girl from Connecticut with hippy tendencies can’t relate to a nerdy Dominican from the ghetto in New Jersey. I can relate to life going badly no matter what. But that’s life, not a curse. Right? Well, maybe in that families case.

Conclusion:

Definitely worth a read.

Now for something light with Eat, Pray, Love.

My summer…

just got so much better. I just got a job at a Sushi restaurant that I used to go to with my parents. I’m officially settled into the MacDonald’s house. And I just spend the entire day at the lake house.

This is the summer where I will learn how to wake surf and actually get behind the boat with water skiing.

I’m running everyday and eating yummy, healthy food.

I’ve had a really negative attitude recently and I feel it all turning around.

Yay!